Friday 28 June 2013

No one Likes the Downside.

Dear readers, we have often read or heard about the positives of having an early retirement. Some might feel that it's pretty easy to achieve, but is it really? The answer is no, unless you have a huge inheritance, strike the lottery or invented a cure for cancer.

The road to an early retirement is filled with sacrifice, people putting you down and loads of complaining and grumbling. Here is a list of downsides that we might experience depending on our individual situations.

The Want That Now Syndrome - As humans, we are often tempted by advertisements of new and interesting "toys". Companies spend millions to create and cultivate this 'want that now' syndrome in all of us. However, in order to retire early and still maintain our current level of lifestyle, we have to learn to cut off this habit. We have to sacrifice what we might want but not need now in order to have an early retirement with all our needs satisfied. You might not have what your friends are having now, but 10 - 20 years down the road, they will not have what you will have then. Freedom.

Where's Dad/Mom? - This might not be applicable to most people, only to those who are really hardcore about early retirement. I would not say whether this sacrifice of current family time is right or wrong. It's a matter of your personal preference and priority. However, I do have something to advice. If you sacrifice too much family time now, you might not have the chance in the future to spend time with them. Second or even third jobs will bring in that extra money and cut that time to retirement down. Worth it or not, you have to decide.

When I grow up, I want to be a... - It extremely rare to have everything in life, God is fair. You win some you lose some. More often that not, we have to sacrifice what we always wanted to do or be in order to achieve a goal, which in this case is early retirement. To achieve early retirement, we first have to get at least a moderate paying job. Being a writer or an artist probably won't get you there - unless you are some kind of a genius in that field. We all have to be realistic. We might have to get a job we do not like so much but pays well in order to have enough money to invest for an early retirement.

Vice President XXX - A high post would be something that we have to admit will not be attained if we are to choose early retirement. We would be retired before we are able to reach that level. There is just not enough time. One of the traits to reach early retirement is to be contented. Knowing when is enough. Well, technically you could still hold a high position in a company and still be retired. It all depends on what your definition is. It could be - Not working for the rest of your life OR Having the CHOICE of not having to work when you do not want to. I prefer the latter as working kinda keeps your mind active. Working whilst retired takes out all the stress and pressure of having not enough to survive. ( I hope you understand what I'm trying to say)

Why's the Grape so Sour?? -  I think that I have talked about this point in a previous post. People are always jealous of what they cannot have or achieve. They will try to talk you out of it, say nasty things behind your back or simply ignore you. Guess what, we should not care. It's our life and we own it. We should live or die by our very own rules and choices. If you have made the choice, stay committed no matter what. No one every achieves anything by backing out of everything.

There you have it, some of the down sides en route to an early retirement. Hope you get pass all these downners and emerge victorious. All these are temporary. Freedom( If well planned) is forever.

As Always, save more, spend less and Invest wisely.
P.

3 comments:

  1. I fully agree that in our commercial society, companies are doing well in creating the “want that now syndrome” so that we’ll spend more which means more profit for them. From our perspective, if we’ll spend more, it’ll mean less savings which will mean a later retirement. In order to circumvent the syndrome, I suggest to use the criterion ‘peace’ rather than ‘happiness’ when we decide to buy or not to buy. The following (an excerpt from my book “Wisdom on How to Live Life”) explains the advantages of using peace as a goal in life.

    Tom: I thought one main goal in life is to be happy.

    Guru: Happiness is really a commercial goal, that’s why we have “Happy New Year”, “Happy Birthday” and so on.

    Tom: Can you elaborate?

    Guru: In the commercial world, their business is to sell you things, right?

    Tom: Right, sell things and make profit.

    Guru: It’ll be much easier for them to sell if they can convince you that happiness is your main goal in life and their product can bring you happiness.

    Tom: You mean they don’t.

    Guru: Some products do but whatever happiness they bring, it’s only temporal. In fact, it can be very short.

    Tom: Is there a better goal in life?

    Guru: Peace.

    Tom: I thought peace is to do with dying, like “rest in peace”.

    Guru: How about “live in peace”?

    Tom: Yes, how will peace affect the living?

    Guru: Suppose shopping makes you happy, but you don’t have money. What’ll you do?

    Tom: I can work, earn some money and then do my shopping.

    Guru: Let’s say you don’t like to work and in any case, you want your money fast. How can you get it?

    Tom: Steal?

    Guru: Yes. If happiness is your goal, you can justify stealing because by stealing, you’ll get your money and after you got your money, you can do your shopping and you’ll be happy.

    Tom: But what happens if I’m caught.

    Guru: This is the man-made law part. So you can take your chance because you may or may not get caught.

    Tom: How will it be different if peace is the goal?

    Guru: If peace is your goal, then you can’t justify stealing because getting your money through stealing won’t make you feel peaceful.

    Tom: Can I steal and pretend to be peaceful?

    Guru: Peace belongs to divine laws. So you can’t escape the consequence.

    Tom: So I can’t rest in peace?

    Guru: You can, by not stealing!

    Tom: But I want to be happy?

    Guru: Yes, there’s another problem with happiness as the goal.

    Tom: What’s that?

    Guru: It leads to immorality.

    Tom: I was told that it is better to be rich and immoral than poor and moral.

    Guru: Who told you that?

    Tom: The rich and powerful.

    Guru: Exactly, if happiness is your goal, you’ll conclude that it’s better to be rich and immoral.

    Tom: What happens if peace is my goal?

    Guru: Then you’ll conclude that it’s better to be poor and moral.

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    1. Hi Tommy, Is your book available at major bookstores? Might pop by to get one. Had to read the excerpt twice to understand. I think the haze is slowing my brain functions. Haha, I'm hoping for rich and moral and happy and peaceful. Damn greedy.

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  2. Hi, my books are not available in any bookstore - major or minor. Easiest way to get the books is to contact me at email: tommyswwong@gmail.com.
    Yes, why aren't we all be rich, moral, happy and peaceful? This is indeed heaven on Earth!

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