We all have those kind of weeks where time seems to crawl, things don't go right and you can't stop feeling nauseous. I often wonder why some days seem longer than the rest. And also why do bad things always seem to happen at once. These days, I often feel like fast forwarding time by a week or two.
The reason for all these negative feelings, in my opinion stems from having to work 5 days a week. My ideal workweek would consist of 3 workdays where every hour would be utilized to the max. Currently, there are pockets of idle time riddling through my work hours. As time goes by, I feel that its getting harder to bear. I wonder how you guys feel about your work week? Is 5 days of work too much or too little?
I have thought of a few ways to counter this negative feeling and change my life a little, some drastic and some minor changes. Not sure whether they will work but I might just give it a go in the near future.
1) Quit my job and work part-time/freelance.
2) Request to work lesser days for a lesser pay, make up for loss cash flow by working or doing something more enjoyable part time.
3) Take a break and go for a short getaway to recharge my batteries.
4) Take a long break - like 6 months - and backpack. (would love to do this but... so many reasons I cant afford it - later retirement date, new company, new house coming up, planning for kids.... sigh..)
5) Suck it up and take it like a man.
Have a few more ideas which are too ridiculous to be listed here lest I get flamed. Anyway, I would appreciate it a great deal if anyone could give me ideas to mitigate the negative feeling. I'm pretty sure many of you have felt the same way or are feeling the same way right now. I know we all have to go through this work life to earn enough for retirement, but some days... you know? Enough of my rants, thoughts please?
As always, save more, spend less and invest wisely.
P.
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Tuesday, 2 July 2013
Thursday, 23 May 2013
Know When To Alight
Dear Readers,
I'm pretty sure that like me, most of you have a set retirement date and amount of money you want to have at retirement in mind. However, can you honestly say that when you eventually reach that much awaited point in your life, you could just stop what you have been doing for say 20 years and start a 'new' life?
I wonder what I would feel at that time as a person who likes to have a large margin of safety. I guess I would wonder to myself as to whether I have sufficient funds to allow my family to live comfortably. I would also ask myself what I would do with so much of my time. I do have a list of things I would love to do now, but would it be the same 15 years down the road?
Anyway, what I wanted to say in this post is that, besides having enough money, there are other things to consider before alighting at your retirement stop.
As always, save more, spend less and invest wisely.
I'm pretty sure that like me, most of you have a set retirement date and amount of money you want to have at retirement in mind. However, can you honestly say that when you eventually reach that much awaited point in your life, you could just stop what you have been doing for say 20 years and start a 'new' life?
I wonder what I would feel at that time as a person who likes to have a large margin of safety. I guess I would wonder to myself as to whether I have sufficient funds to allow my family to live comfortably. I would also ask myself what I would do with so much of my time. I do have a list of things I would love to do now, but would it be the same 15 years down the road?
Anyway, what I wanted to say in this post is that, besides having enough money, there are other things to consider before alighting at your retirement stop.
- Friends - I'm talking about close friends that have been with you through the years. You having an early retirement does not mean that they too are having one. Will you have to look for new friends to participate in all the activities you planned for during your extra time in retirement?
- Health - Are you healthy? It affects everything, from the amount of money you will have to spend to the changes in your mood. Make sure that you are well covered insurance wise and also please eat healthily and exercise more so as to keep a healthy body. ( Note to self : Please practice what you preach)
- Family - Are your immediate family members supportive of your decision? Is your spouse going to continue working or is he/she going to retire early as well? I feel that everyone in your immediate family should be comfortable with the situation if you are to have a happy and early retirement.
- Career - Are you ready to leave your career behind? Something that you have been working hard for through the past decades of your life? If you are not, you could consider semi retirement first before the transition to a full retirement. Anyway, I feel that we should not let our careers define our lives. Straying a little bit from my point here but I was wondering, at the moment, if someone asked you what you do, without a thought, you would say Engineer or accountant or doctor. What happens when someone asks the same question after you have retired at a young age? Er, I do....things I like? I do..Life? Anyway, just a thought, no further thinking required.
- Hobbies - What are you going to do during all that free time? It's not as easy to fill as you think. I once took a 1 week break and realized that it's extremely boring not to have a goal in mind. What's worse was that I was the only one I knew that was not working that week so in a way, I was alone. Perhaps a preview of early retirement if my wife continues to work. - I'll have to reconsider a full early retirement until my wife retires as well. Actually these days, I'm more inclined towards a semi retirement as my wife and I should be starting a business of our own real soon. Fingers crossed it works out.
As always, save more, spend less and invest wisely.
Friday, 17 May 2013
My Fears Related to Early Retirement
I have often wondered how would people around me feel or perceive me should I tell them that I will be retired before the age of 40. Most would just assume that I either struck the lottery, inherited a massive amount of wealth or that I command a massive paycheck. All these are not true. Early retirement, for me is gained by saving hard, cutting the amount of money I spend and also taking the effort and time to find the correct stocks and bonds to purchase.
I also have this fear that should I retire early, especially in Singapore, many would see me and those like me as lazy. Questions would start flooding in, from both relatives and friends. "Why don't you continue working to earn more money?". " Why are you doing non constructive stuff". "Why are you no longer a productive member of the society?" .... So many whys. Well, @!$!@4 you that's why. Just kidding.
I seek early retirement because I do not want to work the best part of my life away. There is only a finite amount of things you need to purchase in life. I want to live, do the things I want to do while I am able. I want to be able to travel without fear of work piling up while I'm away. I want to be able to have a 2 hour lunch followed by a 1 hour stroll and not a 1 hour lunch. I want to be able to take the lessons and courses I have been wanting to take but have no time for. French, bike, diving and powerboat. All these things and many more. You get my drift.
Working will usually drain you of your energy, and at the end of the day, all you want to do is laze on the couch and watch some TV. Is that how you want to live you life till you are 65? I damn well do not.
Therefore, I have come to a conclusion. I will only care what the people directly affected by my early retirement think - A.K.A. My wife and future children. I feel that as long as we are happy, and my wife and I are able to provide for all our and future children's needs, other people can say anything they want and not mean a thing to me.
You know yourself best. If you have set an intended course, do not let anyone sway you from it. Many will sway you out of jealousy. Do not be brought down by their petty remarks. As long as you and your family are happy and contented, nothing else really matters.
Phwoar..really needed to let that out because it has been bugging me for quite some time. Sorry for the rant.
Anyway, as always, Save more, Spend Less and Invest Wisely.
P.
I also have this fear that should I retire early, especially in Singapore, many would see me and those like me as lazy. Questions would start flooding in, from both relatives and friends. "Why don't you continue working to earn more money?". " Why are you doing non constructive stuff". "Why are you no longer a productive member of the society?" .... So many whys. Well, @!$!@4 you that's why. Just kidding.
I seek early retirement because I do not want to work the best part of my life away. There is only a finite amount of things you need to purchase in life. I want to live, do the things I want to do while I am able. I want to be able to travel without fear of work piling up while I'm away. I want to be able to have a 2 hour lunch followed by a 1 hour stroll and not a 1 hour lunch. I want to be able to take the lessons and courses I have been wanting to take but have no time for. French, bike, diving and powerboat. All these things and many more. You get my drift.
Working will usually drain you of your energy, and at the end of the day, all you want to do is laze on the couch and watch some TV. Is that how you want to live you life till you are 65? I damn well do not.
Therefore, I have come to a conclusion. I will only care what the people directly affected by my early retirement think - A.K.A. My wife and future children. I feel that as long as we are happy, and my wife and I are able to provide for all our and future children's needs, other people can say anything they want and not mean a thing to me.
You know yourself best. If you have set an intended course, do not let anyone sway you from it. Many will sway you out of jealousy. Do not be brought down by their petty remarks. As long as you and your family are happy and contented, nothing else really matters.
Phwoar..really needed to let that out because it has been bugging me for quite some time. Sorry for the rant.
Anyway, as always, Save more, Spend Less and Invest Wisely.
P.
Thursday, 25 April 2013
29,200...29,199...29,198................RIP
Hi all, how has your day been so far? Or should i ask, how has your life been so far? Do you know what the title represents? Do you know what the numbers mean? Well, it's the total number of days that a person who lives till the age of 80 has to live.
Do you not feel that when you look how much time you have in terms of the number of days, it looks really short? Lets say you are 25 this year, you would have approximately 20,000 days left to live and if you are 35, about 16,500 days left to live.
Consider this example, Mike, who is 35 this year working at a mid level job with working hours from 9 to 6.
He takes an hour to travel to work and another hour back. That is a total of 11 hours of his day sacrificed in exchange for an income. Say he works till the retirement age of 65. For the sake of simplicity of calculation, a year would consist of 260 work days( 52 weeks*5 ). That would be 2,860 hours per year or 119 days and by the age of 65, would be 3,570 days.
The situation only gets more disastrous. Do not forget that out of these 16,500 days, about 1/3 of it or 8 hours a days will be spent sleeping. According to my calculations, you would be left with only a miserable 11,000 days left to live(16,500*0.66666), and that's considering you live to 80 and don't work over time and weekends.
How does it sound now that you have only got 11,000 days left to live? Scary right? Everyone has different choices in life. Mine is to try to save as much as i can, cut my spending to a minimum and invest wisely so i can stop wasting my life working and worrying about money. The precious number of days i have left would be better spent on my loved ones and myself.
What are your thoughts on this? Are you of a similar thought? Are you going to live to work or are u going to work to live? Share your thoughts, i would really appreciate views from different people.
As always, save more, spend less and invest wisely.
P.
Do you not feel that when you look how much time you have in terms of the number of days, it looks really short? Lets say you are 25 this year, you would have approximately 20,000 days left to live and if you are 35, about 16,500 days left to live.
Consider this example, Mike, who is 35 this year working at a mid level job with working hours from 9 to 6.
He takes an hour to travel to work and another hour back. That is a total of 11 hours of his day sacrificed in exchange for an income. Say he works till the retirement age of 65. For the sake of simplicity of calculation, a year would consist of 260 work days( 52 weeks*5 ). That would be 2,860 hours per year or 119 days and by the age of 65, would be 3,570 days.
The situation only gets more disastrous. Do not forget that out of these 16,500 days, about 1/3 of it or 8 hours a days will be spent sleeping. According to my calculations, you would be left with only a miserable 11,000 days left to live(16,500*0.66666), and that's considering you live to 80 and don't work over time and weekends.
How does it sound now that you have only got 11,000 days left to live? Scary right? Everyone has different choices in life. Mine is to try to save as much as i can, cut my spending to a minimum and invest wisely so i can stop wasting my life working and worrying about money. The precious number of days i have left would be better spent on my loved ones and myself.
What are your thoughts on this? Are you of a similar thought? Are you going to live to work or are u going to work to live? Share your thoughts, i would really appreciate views from different people.
As always, save more, spend less and invest wisely.
P.
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