Due to the weather being pretty warm and humid last Sunday, my wife and I decided to go for a swim.( To be brutally honest, all we did was soak.) On past occasions that these soakings occurred, we always got to talking about our future and also our financial plans and goals and this time was no different.
Sometimes, we would disagree and more often than not, irritation would get the better of us. Thankfully this time, this was not the case and I found this discussion to be extremely insightful. The main topic revolved around what we valued more and what we valued less. I found that we had very, I repeat very different views on money and material items. I realized that the reason why I prefer to save and invest is because I value money and freedom high above any material items I could purchase.
That being the case, why would any normal person want to trade something he/she loves more for something he/she loves less. I would not want to trade money to buy new clothes but I would trade money to invest to earn more money to give myself financial freedom.
My wife on the other hand stated that she would want to work till the normal retirement age of 65 as she wants to be able to continue buying anything she wants....which is practically everything. I felt that is was fair as she would be trading something she loves less(money) for something she loves more (bags, shoes, clothes..and the list goes on..)
In the end, soaked and wrinkled like raisins soaked in rum, we came to a compromise which would invlove 2 step.The 1st step was that we would, together, work towards reaching an investment portfolio value which would give us enough passive income to cover all our basic needs. This would include stuff that we could not live without like utility, mobile phone charges, food and stuff like that.
The 2nd step would proceed after we have achieved step one. It would be that whatever else we earned after step one would be used to do whatever we wanted, or more likely, whatever she wanted. The 1st priority will no longer be to save but to spend. Although this goes heavily against my nature, I felt that it was only right since she went along with me for part one.
That said, the important thing was to have no more debts and enough investment income to last till the end.
What kinds of compromise have you made with your spouse or even yourself? Are you happy with the compromise? We must always seek balance and try to provide happiness for our significant other. If one party is not happy in a relationship, it will be extremely hard for it to blossom.
As always, save more, spend less and invest wisely.
P.
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Monday, 8 July 2013
Friday, 28 June 2013
No one Likes the Downside.
Dear readers, we have often read or heard about the positives of having an early retirement. Some might feel that it's pretty easy to achieve, but is it really? The answer is no, unless you have a huge inheritance, strike the lottery or invented a cure for cancer.
The road to an early retirement is filled with sacrifice, people putting you down and loads of complaining and grumbling. Here is a list of downsides that we might experience depending on our individual situations.
The Want That Now Syndrome - As humans, we are often tempted by advertisements of new and interesting "toys". Companies spend millions to create and cultivate this 'want that now' syndrome in all of us. However, in order to retire early and still maintain our current level of lifestyle, we have to learn to cut off this habit. We have to sacrifice what we might want but not need now in order to have an early retirement with all our needs satisfied. You might not have what your friends are having now, but 10 - 20 years down the road, they will not have what you will have then. Freedom.
Where's Dad/Mom? - This might not be applicable to most people, only to those who are really hardcore about early retirement. I would not say whether this sacrifice of current family time is right or wrong. It's a matter of your personal preference and priority. However, I do have something to advice. If you sacrifice too much family time now, you might not have the chance in the future to spend time with them. Second or even third jobs will bring in that extra money and cut that time to retirement down. Worth it or not, you have to decide.
When I grow up, I want to be a... - It extremely rare to have everything in life, God is fair. You win some you lose some. More often that not, we have to sacrifice what we always wanted to do or be in order to achieve a goal, which in this case is early retirement. To achieve early retirement, we first have to get at least a moderate paying job. Being a writer or an artist probably won't get you there - unless you are some kind of a genius in that field. We all have to be realistic. We might have to get a job we do not like so much but pays well in order to have enough money to invest for an early retirement.
Vice President XXX - A high post would be something that we have to admit will not be attained if we are to choose early retirement. We would be retired before we are able to reach that level. There is just not enough time. One of the traits to reach early retirement is to be contented. Knowing when is enough. Well, technically you could still hold a high position in a company and still be retired. It all depends on what your definition is. It could be - Not working for the rest of your life OR Having the CHOICE of not having to work when you do not want to. I prefer the latter as working kinda keeps your mind active. Working whilst retired takes out all the stress and pressure of having not enough to survive. ( I hope you understand what I'm trying to say)
Why's the Grape so Sour?? - I think that I have talked about this point in a previous post. People are always jealous of what they cannot have or achieve. They will try to talk you out of it, say nasty things behind your back or simply ignore you. Guess what, we should not care. It's our life and we own it. We should live or die by our very own rules and choices. If you have made the choice, stay committed no matter what. No one every achieves anything by backing out of everything.
There you have it, some of the down sides en route to an early retirement. Hope you get pass all these downners and emerge victorious. All these are temporary. Freedom( If well planned) is forever.
As Always, save more, spend less and Invest wisely.
P.
The road to an early retirement is filled with sacrifice, people putting you down and loads of complaining and grumbling. Here is a list of downsides that we might experience depending on our individual situations.
The Want That Now Syndrome - As humans, we are often tempted by advertisements of new and interesting "toys". Companies spend millions to create and cultivate this 'want that now' syndrome in all of us. However, in order to retire early and still maintain our current level of lifestyle, we have to learn to cut off this habit. We have to sacrifice what we might want but not need now in order to have an early retirement with all our needs satisfied. You might not have what your friends are having now, but 10 - 20 years down the road, they will not have what you will have then. Freedom.
Where's Dad/Mom? - This might not be applicable to most people, only to those who are really hardcore about early retirement. I would not say whether this sacrifice of current family time is right or wrong. It's a matter of your personal preference and priority. However, I do have something to advice. If you sacrifice too much family time now, you might not have the chance in the future to spend time with them. Second or even third jobs will bring in that extra money and cut that time to retirement down. Worth it or not, you have to decide.
When I grow up, I want to be a... - It extremely rare to have everything in life, God is fair. You win some you lose some. More often that not, we have to sacrifice what we always wanted to do or be in order to achieve a goal, which in this case is early retirement. To achieve early retirement, we first have to get at least a moderate paying job. Being a writer or an artist probably won't get you there - unless you are some kind of a genius in that field. We all have to be realistic. We might have to get a job we do not like so much but pays well in order to have enough money to invest for an early retirement.
Vice President XXX - A high post would be something that we have to admit will not be attained if we are to choose early retirement. We would be retired before we are able to reach that level. There is just not enough time. One of the traits to reach early retirement is to be contented. Knowing when is enough. Well, technically you could still hold a high position in a company and still be retired. It all depends on what your definition is. It could be - Not working for the rest of your life OR Having the CHOICE of not having to work when you do not want to. I prefer the latter as working kinda keeps your mind active. Working whilst retired takes out all the stress and pressure of having not enough to survive. ( I hope you understand what I'm trying to say)
Why's the Grape so Sour?? - I think that I have talked about this point in a previous post. People are always jealous of what they cannot have or achieve. They will try to talk you out of it, say nasty things behind your back or simply ignore you. Guess what, we should not care. It's our life and we own it. We should live or die by our very own rules and choices. If you have made the choice, stay committed no matter what. No one every achieves anything by backing out of everything.
There you have it, some of the down sides en route to an early retirement. Hope you get pass all these downners and emerge victorious. All these are temporary. Freedom( If well planned) is forever.
As Always, save more, spend less and Invest wisely.
P.
Thursday, 23 May 2013
Know When To Alight
Dear Readers,
I'm pretty sure that like me, most of you have a set retirement date and amount of money you want to have at retirement in mind. However, can you honestly say that when you eventually reach that much awaited point in your life, you could just stop what you have been doing for say 20 years and start a 'new' life?
I wonder what I would feel at that time as a person who likes to have a large margin of safety. I guess I would wonder to myself as to whether I have sufficient funds to allow my family to live comfortably. I would also ask myself what I would do with so much of my time. I do have a list of things I would love to do now, but would it be the same 15 years down the road?
Anyway, what I wanted to say in this post is that, besides having enough money, there are other things to consider before alighting at your retirement stop.
As always, save more, spend less and invest wisely.
I'm pretty sure that like me, most of you have a set retirement date and amount of money you want to have at retirement in mind. However, can you honestly say that when you eventually reach that much awaited point in your life, you could just stop what you have been doing for say 20 years and start a 'new' life?
I wonder what I would feel at that time as a person who likes to have a large margin of safety. I guess I would wonder to myself as to whether I have sufficient funds to allow my family to live comfortably. I would also ask myself what I would do with so much of my time. I do have a list of things I would love to do now, but would it be the same 15 years down the road?
Anyway, what I wanted to say in this post is that, besides having enough money, there are other things to consider before alighting at your retirement stop.
- Friends - I'm talking about close friends that have been with you through the years. You having an early retirement does not mean that they too are having one. Will you have to look for new friends to participate in all the activities you planned for during your extra time in retirement?
- Health - Are you healthy? It affects everything, from the amount of money you will have to spend to the changes in your mood. Make sure that you are well covered insurance wise and also please eat healthily and exercise more so as to keep a healthy body. ( Note to self : Please practice what you preach)
- Family - Are your immediate family members supportive of your decision? Is your spouse going to continue working or is he/she going to retire early as well? I feel that everyone in your immediate family should be comfortable with the situation if you are to have a happy and early retirement.
- Career - Are you ready to leave your career behind? Something that you have been working hard for through the past decades of your life? If you are not, you could consider semi retirement first before the transition to a full retirement. Anyway, I feel that we should not let our careers define our lives. Straying a little bit from my point here but I was wondering, at the moment, if someone asked you what you do, without a thought, you would say Engineer or accountant or doctor. What happens when someone asks the same question after you have retired at a young age? Er, I do....things I like? I do..Life? Anyway, just a thought, no further thinking required.
- Hobbies - What are you going to do during all that free time? It's not as easy to fill as you think. I once took a 1 week break and realized that it's extremely boring not to have a goal in mind. What's worse was that I was the only one I knew that was not working that week so in a way, I was alone. Perhaps a preview of early retirement if my wife continues to work. - I'll have to reconsider a full early retirement until my wife retires as well. Actually these days, I'm more inclined towards a semi retirement as my wife and I should be starting a business of our own real soon. Fingers crossed it works out.
As always, save more, spend less and invest wisely.
Thursday, 16 May 2013
Set Mini Crossover Points to Spur you towards the Ultimate Crossover Point
The ultimate crossover point is when your passive incomes are finally more than your total expenses. This is when you know you have reach financial freedom. At this point, you will no longer be bound by the need to have a job. You will have this very special reward called choice. Choice to work or just to stay at home the entire day. Choice to travel for an entire year and choice to never work again.
The only problem is that the journey to this crossover point is long and tedious. Different people set different points as spending and saving needs and powers are different. For example, if you spend very little and save a lot, you will reach your crossover point very quickly. And if you spend a lot and save very little, you will reach your crossover point very late in life or never at all. No pain no gain.
However, for the average folks like me who save a decent amount and are not mad spenders, the journey would still be quite a long and arduous one. To keep ourselves motivated and to prevent the thought of giving up, we should set mini crossover points. These are like mini goals to reach, one step at a time.
Here are some mini crossover points to help you generate more ideas.
As always, save more, spend less and invest wisely.
P.
The only problem is that the journey to this crossover point is long and tedious. Different people set different points as spending and saving needs and powers are different. For example, if you spend very little and save a lot, you will reach your crossover point very quickly. And if you spend a lot and save very little, you will reach your crossover point very late in life or never at all. No pain no gain.
However, for the average folks like me who save a decent amount and are not mad spenders, the journey would still be quite a long and arduous one. To keep ourselves motivated and to prevent the thought of giving up, we should set mini crossover points. These are like mini goals to reach, one step at a time.
Here are some mini crossover points to help you generate more ideas.
- Positive Net Worth - In Singapore, I assume that when we get a house, we will fall into negative net worth. Getting back to positive net worth will require work but will definitely be a welcomed crossover point.
- No Debts - Another point to cross would be to have no debts. Student debts, credit card debts or renovation loans.
- Passive Income to cover certain Expenses - Break your expenses up into different categories. For example, telephone bills, water bills, electricity bills or groceries and such. Every time your passive income cover one of the expenses totally, you have reach a mini cross over point. It feels good to know that at that point, you will never need to worry about paying for that expense again.
As always, save more, spend less and invest wisely.
P.
Wednesday, 24 April 2013
My Checklist for Retirement
Since i have decided to document my journey, i feel that it is only right to roughly state where i am on it. Honestly, i am only at the beginning, i would say that I am at about the 10% to 15% point ( I will show my portfolio allocation in a later post). The requirement for me in order to declare myself retired would be that i would have to have completed the following tasks.
45 is also an age whereby I am not too old to do the things i want to do such as travel, hiking and other such stuff. I would still be physically able to backpack Europe at that point, i dream i can only dream of now.
Clear my mortgage
Not clearing the mortgage during retirement would mean that 2 things, i have an added expenditure that is not within my control( cannot choose not to pay ) and my income would be reduced due to the fact that i will not longer be contributing to CPF thus I will have to pay cash for my mortgage. Not a wise choice.
Have different income streams that equals a minimum of my expenses
I would prefer not to draw down on my investment portfolio as i would like to leave it as a form of inheritance to my children. I would therefore try to create as many streams of income as possible to live on comfortably. Currently, my wife and I are working on several projects which should reap fruit in the near future. If not, we are still young and will learn from our failures and try again.
Have $0 debt
Unlike many who believes in good debt and bad debt, i am one who thinks otherwise. To me, all debt are bad debts as it only means that you are owned by someone either directly or indirectly. At the point of retirement, i do not want the chains of debt binding me. No car debts, no housing debts and definitely no credit card debts.( I always pay my credit card bills on time.)
Have an emergency fund of at least 1 year worth of expenses.
In life, nothing is ever certain, you never know when you will need extra money. I hate to think that i would have to borrow from someone to support my family in times of need. Instead, i will have an emergency fund containing at least one years worth of expenses. This would also be a safety net so i will, hopefully never have to sell my businesses or investments at a downturn to fund my living expenses.
Have the min sum in my CPF
The reason for this option is purely personal. I feel that having an additional income coming in at the age of 65 would be something to look forward to. This extra stream of income would be gotten by putting the minimum sum from both my wife and I into CPF Life which should provide a nice extra monthly income for several years. An extra benefit would be that after my wife and I leave this place for a better one, our kids would get whatever is left.( Since the earlier we travel to a better place the more our kids get, i seriously hope they will love us enough not to wish us an early voyage.)
These are my requirements i set for myself before considering myself retired. What are yours? I would love to hear about them so please leave comments.
As always, save more, spend less and invest wisely
P.
- Clear my mortgage.
- Have an income from different streams equal to a min of all my expenses.
- Have $0 debt.
- Have an emergency fund of at least 1 year worth of expenses.
- Have the min sum in my CPF
45 is also an age whereby I am not too old to do the things i want to do such as travel, hiking and other such stuff. I would still be physically able to backpack Europe at that point, i dream i can only dream of now.
Clear my mortgage
Not clearing the mortgage during retirement would mean that 2 things, i have an added expenditure that is not within my control( cannot choose not to pay ) and my income would be reduced due to the fact that i will not longer be contributing to CPF thus I will have to pay cash for my mortgage. Not a wise choice.
Have different income streams that equals a minimum of my expenses
I would prefer not to draw down on my investment portfolio as i would like to leave it as a form of inheritance to my children. I would therefore try to create as many streams of income as possible to live on comfortably. Currently, my wife and I are working on several projects which should reap fruit in the near future. If not, we are still young and will learn from our failures and try again.
Have $0 debt
Unlike many who believes in good debt and bad debt, i am one who thinks otherwise. To me, all debt are bad debts as it only means that you are owned by someone either directly or indirectly. At the point of retirement, i do not want the chains of debt binding me. No car debts, no housing debts and definitely no credit card debts.( I always pay my credit card bills on time.)
Have an emergency fund of at least 1 year worth of expenses.
In life, nothing is ever certain, you never know when you will need extra money. I hate to think that i would have to borrow from someone to support my family in times of need. Instead, i will have an emergency fund containing at least one years worth of expenses. This would also be a safety net so i will, hopefully never have to sell my businesses or investments at a downturn to fund my living expenses.
Have the min sum in my CPF
The reason for this option is purely personal. I feel that having an additional income coming in at the age of 65 would be something to look forward to. This extra stream of income would be gotten by putting the minimum sum from both my wife and I into CPF Life which should provide a nice extra monthly income for several years. An extra benefit would be that after my wife and I leave this place for a better one, our kids would get whatever is left.( Since the earlier we travel to a better place the more our kids get, i seriously hope they will love us enough not to wish us an early voyage.)
These are my requirements i set for myself before considering myself retired. What are yours? I would love to hear about them so please leave comments.
As always, save more, spend less and invest wisely
P.
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