Set Mini Crossover Points to Spur you towards the Ultimate Crossover Point

The ultimate crossover point is when your passive incomes are finally more than your total expenses. This is when you know you have reach financial freedom. At this point, you will no longer be bound by the need to have a job. You will have this very special reward called choice. Choice to work or just to stay at home the entire day. Choice to travel for an entire year and choice to never work again.

The only problem is that the journey to this crossover point is long and tedious. Different people set different points as spending and saving needs and powers are different. For example, if you spend very little and save a lot, you will reach your crossover point very quickly. And if you spend a lot and save very little, you will reach your crossover point very late in life or never at all. No pain no gain.

However, for the average folks like me who save a decent amount and are not mad spenders, the journey would still be quite a long and arduous one. To keep ourselves motivated and to prevent the thought of giving up, we should set mini crossover points. These are like mini goals to reach, one step at a time.

Here are some mini crossover points to help you generate more ideas.

1. Positive Net Worth - In Singapore, I assume that when we get a house, we will fall into negative net worth. Getting back to positive net worth will require work  but will definitely be a welcomed crossover point.
2. No Debts - Another point to cross would be to have no debts. Student debts, credit card debts or renovation loans.
3. Passive Income to cover certain Expenses - Break your expenses up into different categories. For example, telephone bills, water bills, electricity bills or groceries and such. Every time your passive income cover one of the expenses totally, you have reach a mini cross over point. It feels good to know that at that point, you will never need to worry about paying for that expense again.

Now that you have gotten an idea of mini crossovers, you can come up with a list of your own. I hope this helps motivate and spur you on.

As always, save more, spend less and invest wisely.
P.

The Spine of Early Retirement

I'm sure that most of you are familiar with some of the steps you have to take to reach early retirement, but bear with me as I repeat them once again for the benefit those who do not. These steps are not concrete and you can choose to take them or not to attain your early retirement but I believe that paths are similar to these. Only difference being your personal tweaks, luck and mistakes.

Without further ado, here they are:

• Start as Early as Possible - This applies not only to those seeking early retirement or financial freedom but to everyone. The earlier you start, the more time you have to allow the magic of compound interest to work. What's more, having more time allows for more margin of error. No one is perfect therefore we should always make allowance for mistakes.

• Manage your Consumption - One of the main reasons why most people are not able to save enough for an early retirement is because they spend to much. We are all wired to consume and many of us can't help it but conform. However, there is this rebel within us that does not want to conform, we want to break free from the norm - these are the people that are able to achieve extremely early retirement. Reduce spending now, stop spending money on too much wants, stick with the needs. You do not need that new hand phone just because it has a battery life of 1/2 an hour more than yours or a screen 1/2 an inch bigger than yours. Remember, you choose your enough, not your neighbor.

• .Cut down on Excess Spending -  I know it's often hard to form new good habits, but trust me, this will benefit you. For just 1 or 2 months, track every dollar you spend and at the end of the month, you will be able to see where you have been spending unnecessarily. These are the parts of your spending tree that you must prune away. If you feel comfortable keeping track of your expenses by then, you can continue doing so. If not, try to stick to your current monthly expenses less those unnecessary expenses and do a follow up 6 months later to find out your monthly expense status.

•  Be Frugal - This step is an acquired taste, once you get it, it becomes something you actually enjoy doing. However i urge you to do this is moderation if you are not alone in your journey. Your significant other might not share the same joys as you in being frugal. You have to take baby steps to let them see the benefits of being frugal. What you must do to be frugal is to view money as an extremely precious resource not be to exchanged for something of lesser value. For me, i feel that lesser value means items that bring no benefit or new experiences to your life. Most of the time, these items just bring you momentary satisfaction that last for a month at most. Not worth it.

• Never Trade Early Retirement for Happiness and Family - This is the last and most important key. You should never trade anything in this world for happiness and your family. What is the point of forsaking your happiness and family to gain early retirement? The point of early retirement is to be able to have time for both. Don't be over obsessed with retiring early that you forgo your current happiness or spend so much time tweaking your spreadsheet or monitoring your portfolio that you neglect your family. You have to set your priorities right.. what is most important in your life. For me, its family, for without them life would be quite meaningless even if u have all the riches in the world.

 I know that everyone will make mistakes as to err is to be human or was it to err is human... Anyway, i hope that on your journey to financial freedom or early retirement, you will make more right choices than mistakes. Ponder upon what is most important in your life, keep it close and never ever trade it for anything this world has to offer.

As always, save more, spend less and invest wisely.
P.

Dealing with Early Retirement Obsession

There will come a point, no doubt, in every early retirement preppers journey where he/she will become extremely obsessed. (At least i hope that its not just me.)

You will start counting every day and dollar you have to retirement. You will search for every book and blog for every single detail which increases your chance of early retirement. And if you are like me, you will tweak and tweak your early retirement spreadsheet several times a day before you feel at ease. Don't judge me, you will get to this point if you want early retirement bad enough.

The key point is to realize that this is merely a stage that you have to go through and that these are just the means and not the ends of your goal. I have to admit that i am still at this stage, although i feel that I'm exiting it for the next soon.

For those of you who are beginning this stage or are stuck chest deep in this obsession, here are a few pointers to hopefully help you out.

ps if you say you are not obsessed and immediately have to check your spreadsheet or  think of new methods straight after you read my blog...sorry bro.. you are.

To the therapy room ~

• First of all, like all problems like alcohol or gambling addiction, the most important step is to realize and admit that you are obsessed with early retirement. Only then can you see the full picture. Having this obsession for a short while is okay as it drives you to save more in the early stage. Dragging it out for too long is where this obsession gets unhealthy, not unlike any other obsession.

• Next, you will have to realize that after the initial stage of planning and savings, the small little obsessive tweaks here and there will at most shave a few days off your retirement. The time spent will not be worth it. You should instead be spending your time with your family. All you have to do is stick to your decided path and only tweak or tinker when you hit a major milestone or feel that your are drifting off your path.

•  Lastly, pick up as many new skills and hobbies as you can - inexpensive ones of course. There are 2 reasons for this pointer. The first would be that it takes your mind off constantly obsessing about early retirement. The second would be that these skills and hobbies are the things that will keep you occupied and your mind alert when you are finally into retirement.

There it is, my humble advice to you. I really hope it helps, however much or little.

My last parting advice would be to always share your plans, your feelings and even your obsessions with your family or spouse. I know its hard...as a guy to share his feelings..(Gals have no issue in this department..at least my wife doesn't - sometimes i think i should invent pills for verbal diarrhea).

Anyway, sharing will really bond you and take some burden off your shoulders. Remember that you are never truly alone. Family is forever.

As always, save more, spend less and invest wisely.
P.

Compromising on differing financial and retirement goals in a relationship

Being married has taught me several things in life. To be patient, go give and seek nothing in return, to always try to find a compromise and most importantly, to always have to work and put in effort into something or someone that means everything to you.

Firstly, i would like to say that like many other couples out there, my relationship consists of a spender (A.K.A the wife) and a saver, me. More often than not, especially after reading books and blogs on being frugal, i would start preaching about the importance of being frugal to my wife, C. Which almost always leads to 3 different scenarios. A hardly convincing agreement, a roll of her eyes plus sneer combo and the worst... the I don't agree to this, we should spend what we earn as a reward conversation.

Through the years i have known her, i have learned to compromise and come up with tweaks to my obsessive saving habits so as to integrate her obsessive spending habits ( 100 Pairs of shoes and counting.."'Retail Therapy" she calls it... ) into my life. One of the very effective methods was the use of the bad mood fund or the B.M.F in short. I can't remember where i read this from but thank you whoever blogged about this.

What is this bad mood fund you might ask? Well, its a simple concept whereby we set aside a sum of money every month and deposit it into a separate savings account. It is left there to accumulate till THAT WOMAN my loving wife feels like spending it -  bad mood or not. This way, she does not feel that she is being restricted or bounded.

I feel that it is extremely important to communicate with your other half to get a feel of their views on both your financial and daily lives. Find out what they think of your views of financial planning and retirement while in turn finding out theirs.

The key is to be comfortable talking to each other about money as it can be an extremely touchy subject. Once you have laid out everything on the table, you can then decide how best to work things out and compromise so that everyone is happy.

I wish you all the best in your financial and daily lives with your loved one/s.

As Always.. Save more, spend less and invest wisely
P.

About me and my goals

Where do i start? So many things to say but so little time.. I guess it's the same with life. So many things to do and goals to achieve but with such a limited time to do them. What if i could give myself more time to do the things i want to do? No, not by extending my life, ( although that would be nice in the distant future) but by retiring earlier than what most Singaporeans would call the norm. In order to do this, sacrifices will have to be made and rules will have to be strictly adhered to.

Through this blog, i will try to record my thoughts and methods i will use to achieve this early retirement. I am currently in my late twenties working in the engineering sector and I plan to retire no later than the age of 45. I am currently married and am waiting for my home. (Mortgage payments are a killer to my early retirement planning). As for kids, i am definitely planning for at least 1, hoping for 2. I am pretty sure that if i plan my finances well enough, my wife and I, together with our future kids would be able to live pretty comfortably when we retire.

I hope that through this blog, more Singaporeans would be encouraged to save more, spend less and invest more in order to be able to spend more time with their loved ones instead of sitting alone in a cubicle wherever they are in Singapore.

I'm kind of running out of time and would have to sign off here. Loads of work to do and daylight is running out. I'll be trying to post as often as i can with a minimum of 1 post a week. Till then, see you and live well.