Job Loss - Utilisation of the Emergency Fund

Dear readers, I was just thinking to myself how I would handle loss of income should both my wife and I happen to be jobless at the same time. Not that it is happening now, but who is to say that it will never happen.

My wife and I are currently in the midst of starting a new company and we have decided that in order to increase the success rate, she would have to quit her current job. The reason as to why her and not me is because she knows the sector way better than myself. Therefore during these few months ( 4-6 ), we will be relying only on my income which means that our savings and investment amount will be cut down by a lot.

I was thinking, what if during this period of time, I was to lose my job as well. Would it be as disastrous as  I  think it would be? Upon careful consideration, I do feel that the emergency fund would suffice for these 6 month. We would have to cut down on eating out or going for holidays as my planned emergency funds was supposed to cover just our basic needs - plus or minus.

Everyone has different needs to be drawn from the emergency fund. Here are mine should I have to ever utilize it. - Fingers crossed that I will NEVER.

1) Car Expenses - About $300 ( should be a lot less since won't have to commute to work.)
2) Utility bills - About $250
3) Food - $700
4) Wife's Transport - $150
5) Mobile - $60
6) Cable - $50 ( would most likely cancel this, but would be a good replacement for going out which would cost more money)
7) Toiletries  - $50
8) Condo Fees - $350

Total a month would be about $1500-$1900
6 Months would be about $9000 to $11400

I used to be pretty paranoid about having a huge emergency fund to last me a long time, somewhere along the line of 2 years worth. However, I have deemed it to be totally unnecessary and have cut it down to about $15k. The rest were put to better use in investments.

How much emergency funds do you think is enough? 3 months? 6 months or like the old me, 2 years? What are your basic needs and how much can you cut it down to? I'm sure I can cut mine down by quite a bit but I do not see the point as I do not feel that both my wife and I would be out of job at the same time for too long a period of time. An emergency fund is a definite, the question is how much.

As always, save more, spend less and invest wisely.
P.

The Rat Traps to Savings

Dear readers, to save money is one of the most important, if not the most important step to financial independence and retirement.Without this step, nothing will be achieved. No emergency funds, no investments, no safety net. So why is it that so many out there who are able to save still not saving or saving way too little?
I guess the main reason is that they have hit one of the several Rat Traps. Rat Traps are traps that stop you from getting out of the Rat Race. It traps you and keeps you there until you die. Sad but true.

For today's post, I'm going to talk more about the Rat Traps that keep you from saving money. I hope that you are not currently caught in them and if you are, I sincerely hope that you will realize it after reading this post and get out of it and eventually the never ending Rat Race.

So without further ado, here they are.

1. Ready, get set.....NOTHING 
• The hardest part to doing anything new is to get started. There are so many thoughts running through our heads that keep us from taking that first step forward. The 2 largest killing factors are fear and procrastination. For savings, it's mainly procrastination. We always have something we need the money for first, so wait. Too lazy to open a savings account, so wait. Remember, every single day you procrastinate will delay your target date of retirement. Push yourself out of your comfort zone, tell someone or everyone that you are going to start a savings plan and do it. This will push you to not procrastinate and friends and family will from time to time ask you how your plans are going, thus reminding you to keep on doing it.
2. Inconsistent Savings.
• If you are not saving on a regular basis, you will not be able to form the habit of saving. Your conviction to save will be too rubbery. You might fall into the trap of eventually telling yourself, why save and stop saving altogether. Combat this trap by setting up an automated savings account. Most banks have these and the best part is that you wont even have to think about it.
3. Eenie meenie minee mo!
• This trap is, to me, the deadliest of all traps. Conflicting goals. It makes you weigh and choose which situation is the more important one. Conflicting goals are when  you have to choose between saving for that period, or using it to go for that year end holiday you and your family have been talking about all year. If you save, you will be on target to retirement. If you spend on the holiday, your family would be happy. So hard to decide...Set your priorities right, and sometimes, its okay to compromise. The best thing you can do here is to, if you know that you are going to spend on a year end holiday, start setting money aside throughout the year for it. This way, you will not eat into your retirement portions of your savings and your family will be able to have a nice holiday.
4. I'm going nowhere..forget it.
• This is where most people get caught, they have taken the 1st step, and the 2nd and maybe even reached the 10th step. But at a certain point, you will definitely start to doubt and wonder whether all of this is worth the effort at all. Your savings and investments seem to be going nowhere. The balance doesn't even look like its moving. But please, you have pulled yourself this far. Nothing good is ever free or easy. There is a saying that the 1st $100,000 or the 1st $1,000,000 is the hardest and as you go on, it gets easier and easier. Just put one foot in front of the other and keep on going. Set mini goals in between this large goal to keep yourself motivated. Set yearly or monthly goals to save a certain amount, invest a certain amount or pay of a certain amount of debt. This helps, trust me.

Having read about the traps, can you relate to any of them? Are you currently in one? Or did you manage to get out of all these traps? I sincerely hope that we will all escape these traps as soon as possible and get on with out journey towards an early retirement. To those that are still there, don't give up. Try again and never be afraid to ask for help. We come and go from this world alone, but for the span of time that we are in it, we are not.

As always, save more, spend less and invest wisely.
P.

My Arch-Nemesis... The Evil Sale Sign

Yeah you read it right, my biggest enemy are the brightly colored sales signs that are frekin everywhere. I myself am immune to them, but like all evil villains, they tend to attack those who are closest to you for they know that it is there that you can be hurt the most.

In my case, it's my wife, C. Sale signs really know how to do a number on her without her even realizing it..just like moths to flames. I wonder what this mad incessant need to hover to any sale sign is. It's a typical case of having to spend to save. I can understand if she has only a few pieces of clothing in her possession .. but as you can guess...she has a truckload full of clothes..not the small trucks you often see in Singapore but those large 18 wheeler kinds. I often joke that if i sell all her clothes, shoes and bags, I'll be a multi-millonaire.

I know you are waiting for the part where i give you advice on how to stop this zombie like madness...however, i am sorry to report that as of now, i do not have any remedy or cure.. we can only put up with the groaning and moaning of "Brainssssss..." oh wait, I meant "Saleeeeeee...." Only advice I can offer is not to allow them to gather into hordes.. for example, sisters, mothers and girlfriends. When this happens, bless your soul, there is no stopping the stampede of sale maddened zombie girls.

I hope that upon further research and psychological retraining on my test subject  evil dead   wife, i would be able to report back with a cure. Till then, stay alert and avert their eyes from the signs. I wish you all the best in your endeavor.

Over and Out.
P.

Compromising on differing financial and retirement goals in a relationship

Being married has taught me several things in life. To be patient, go give and seek nothing in return, to always try to find a compromise and most importantly, to always have to work and put in effort into something or someone that means everything to you.

Firstly, i would like to say that like many other couples out there, my relationship consists of a spender (A.K.A the wife) and a saver, me. More often than not, especially after reading books and blogs on being frugal, i would start preaching about the importance of being frugal to my wife, C. Which almost always leads to 3 different scenarios. A hardly convincing agreement, a roll of her eyes plus sneer combo and the worst... the I don't agree to this, we should spend what we earn as a reward conversation.

Through the years i have known her, i have learned to compromise and come up with tweaks to my obsessive saving habits so as to integrate her obsessive spending habits ( 100 Pairs of shoes and counting.."'Retail Therapy" she calls it... ) into my life. One of the very effective methods was the use of the bad mood fund or the B.M.F in short. I can't remember where i read this from but thank you whoever blogged about this.

What is this bad mood fund you might ask? Well, its a simple concept whereby we set aside a sum of money every month and deposit it into a separate savings account. It is left there to accumulate till THAT WOMAN my loving wife feels like spending it -  bad mood or not. This way, she does not feel that she is being restricted or bounded.

I feel that it is extremely important to communicate with your other half to get a feel of their views on both your financial and daily lives. Find out what they think of your views of financial planning and retirement while in turn finding out theirs.

The key is to be comfortable talking to each other about money as it can be an extremely touchy subject. Once you have laid out everything on the table, you can then decide how best to work things out and compromise so that everyone is happy.

I wish you all the best in your financial and daily lives with your loved one/s.

As Always.. Save more, spend less and invest wisely
P.